I really like this girl at work, but need advice on getting things started?
Weve only spoken 3 or 4 times in the lift and at the drinks machine, I introduced myself and we shook hands.
(was this a good start???)
Now what???? Ive never been good at talking to the ladies so I was wondering if I could get some advice on how to go about getting to know her better. (All I know so far is her name)
She works on the same floor as me in an office block, but we are in different teams. I never have to go to her team, she never has to come to mine.
She seems to like me, but I am not sure if she is just being polite.
I’m a little new to the dating scene, so any advice would be nice. Plus I think me turning up at the lifts and coffee machine at the same time ‘might’ be wearing a bit thin now!!!
Thanks.
Look at what she gets at the vending machine and get ahead of her one day and buy it for her. That should start a converstation.
Don’t get ahead of yourself but good job introducing yourself. That’s a good start, but she is new and probably being polite so she is well liked at her job. Just ask her out if you want too-but beware because she barely knows you so this could go either way.
You could ask her what she likes to do for fun…and then suggest you go out and do it together.
You might say that you think she seems nice and would she like to go sometime to a movie or something…
You might just open up a conversation and tell her the last movie you saw and ask her what kind of movies she likes and then the next time ask her to go….
Seriously, you’re on the right track. Just continue to say Hello when you pass. When you’re in the lift, ask her how she’s doing, if she had a good weekend, etc. The more you converse, the better friends you become. The better friends you become, the closer your relationship will get.
life is too short ask her out but I would say go out in a group she would feel more comfortable. example say hey me and some of our co-workers are going out for a drink after work and see what she say.
While on this group date you will be able to find out more about her and she about you and when you ask her out alone she would feel as though she already know you and would probably say yes.
A cheeky approach… Take a piece of paper and go to her saying you had a memo for her… Well, write this memo inviting her out for a coffee during break together… But dont expect anything, maybe she even dislikes the idea of dating a "workmate"… But you will never know if you dont ask! =)